I learn that every single day. To be patient when it comes to realationships, reaching goals, finding the truth, I mean everything. Sad thing is that most of us are just lazy we struggle with procrastination and we just wait for all of it to just make sense one day. But not everyone knows that some of the best things in life require years of hard work and even more years of waiting. It's hard but it's definitely worth taking a shot.
Some things just can't be rushed you know. In fact they don't always work out as planned. What I mean by that is that you need to be prepered for the unexpected. And you have to figure out for yourself how to make the most out of each and every minute. How to be more productive and how to enjoy doing what you do. You probably heard that if you do something for the love what you get back is far more than money can buy. So just love what you do and do what you love.
Friendship and loyalty. That's what comes to my mind when I think about patience. My friends were always there for me when i needed it the most. And if you find yourself in a situation when everybody you valued let you down well you just gotta hold on to your goals and go after it. If you know your priorities it doesn't matter what everybody else have to say. Waiting and going after your goals no matter how all those obstacles effect or don't effect your life, well in a way that's patience.
Friday, August 22, 2008
Friday, August 8, 2008
Wanna go back in time?
Do you ever wish you could go back in time and correct your past? Maybe just one thing one mistake you have made or some wrong choice that change your life forever. Or something you just did without realizing the price it will later cost you... Yes we've all been there. But one thing I know for sure, there is always hope and there is always a way. Twista - Hope target="_blank"> Dido - Life for rent.
It's not so much about the things you say but more about what you do. So I think that if you wanna move on with your life you need to stop running, make up your mind and figure out what exactly you want to do with it. I'm not always proud of what I've done in the past but sometimes you just gotta move on and keep going forward. But there is the other side of the coin. And that's when you start blaming yourself for something you can't change anyway. You worry too much and you're just so stressed out all the time.
Life is too short for all that bullshit. You can't regret some lost opportunities from your past and try to create a vision of how your life would look like if you've had done something differently. It's wasting time and never leads to any progress. While decision making without planning is fairly common it's just part of your life. If you think you can go through life with everything planned ahead one day you're gonna wake up and come to a realization that you're wrong. Life is full of surprises and you're gonna have to deal with it whether you like it or not. Fair or not fair that's just how it is.
It's not so much about the things you say but more about what you do. So I think that if you wanna move on with your life you need to stop running, make up your mind and figure out what exactly you want to do with it. I'm not always proud of what I've done in the past but sometimes you just gotta move on and keep going forward. But there is the other side of the coin. And that's when you start blaming yourself for something you can't change anyway. You worry too much and you're just so stressed out all the time.
Life is too short for all that bullshit. You can't regret some lost opportunities from your past and try to create a vision of how your life would look like if you've had done something differently. It's wasting time and never leads to any progress. While decision making without planning is fairly common it's just part of your life. If you think you can go through life with everything planned ahead one day you're gonna wake up and come to a realization that you're wrong. Life is full of surprises and you're gonna have to deal with it whether you like it or not. Fair or not fair that's just how it is.
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
When it becomes a habit...
When you do something consistently than it becomes a habit. And it's good to have good habits. And it's terrible to have bad ones you know. For instance quitting maight become a habit as well as compiting with others. People that are spoiled struggle with quiting. That's a fact. But you really don't have to be spoiled to be a quitter and you don't have to be deprived to be competitive. Simon and Garfulkel - The sound of silence..
It's easy. For something to become a habit, it must be done consistently. Once it becomes a habit, then you're not even aware of it. It's just as normal to you as other your other daily rutines in your life. So the best thing to do is to work on something little by little but consistently. Sometimes it takes years of practice and training to become a true master. But it all depands how far are you are willing to go. And how much are you willing to sacrifice.
You see, we need to remind ourselves about it. It might be so obvious but if you don't do it soon you're gonna forget. It's just how it works. It starts with an idea but it doesn't end there, right? So knowing what is right from wrong doesn't mean anything unless you do what's right. And making the right choice is never easy. Just because you know where you're going doesn't mean that getting to the end of it is gonna be easy.
It's easy. For something to become a habit, it must be done consistently. Once it becomes a habit, then you're not even aware of it. It's just as normal to you as other your other daily rutines in your life. So the best thing to do is to work on something little by little but consistently. Sometimes it takes years of practice and training to become a true master. But it all depands how far are you are willing to go. And how much are you willing to sacrifice.
You see, we need to remind ourselves about it. It might be so obvious but if you don't do it soon you're gonna forget. It's just how it works. It starts with an idea but it doesn't end there, right? So knowing what is right from wrong doesn't mean anything unless you do what's right. And making the right choice is never easy. Just because you know where you're going doesn't mean that getting to the end of it is gonna be easy.
Sunday, August 3, 2008
So what if you fail?
If you fail, will you try again? You should. Trying may not always pay off, but it shapes your character. One thing that I'm sure of is that it's never too late to make a change for the better. But making a decision like that Is gonna require a careful thought which is gonna put it into action. Otherwise, you're gonna have it all planned but you'll actually never apply it in everyday life. Michael Jackson - Man in the mirror
So in my previous post I was trying to explain that it is really important to have the mentality of saying yes even when in the back of your head you hear the opposite. Imagine that your mind is a battlefield. And all the important decisions you make in your life are wars. Some of them are small and some are big. Sometimes you'll loose a battle, but don't forget that you're fighting a war. So lose the battle, but win the war!
I failed many times in many ways but I'm pretty sure that I'm not the only one out there. Remember that there will always be that one big goal in your life that still remains. You just gotta focus on it and take one step at the time. You might seem strong right now in one area, but will you remain strong in 5, 10 or 15 years? You'll have many losing streaks but if they only can make you stronger then you're already a winner my friend.
So in my previous post I was trying to explain that it is really important to have the mentality of saying yes even when in the back of your head you hear the opposite. Imagine that your mind is a battlefield. And all the important decisions you make in your life are wars. Some of them are small and some are big. Sometimes you'll loose a battle, but don't forget that you're fighting a war. So lose the battle, but win the war!
I failed many times in many ways but I'm pretty sure that I'm not the only one out there. Remember that there will always be that one big goal in your life that still remains. You just gotta focus on it and take one step at the time. You might seem strong right now in one area, but will you remain strong in 5, 10 or 15 years? You'll have many losing streaks but if they only can make you stronger then you're already a winner my friend.
Friday, August 1, 2008
Get the best out of yourself!
You probably know this saying: Never put of until tomorrow what you can do today. So have you ever felt like you just couldn't get it done today because you were so tired and too exhausted? Or maybe you just didn't have enough motivation for whatever reason. Well I know that I have days like that, so I wanna tell you where I get the motivation from and what motivates me the most. Vangelis - Chariots of Fire.
I usually workout every day. You know pullups, pushups and sit ups. I have a pull-bar in between my door and sometimes I just feel like it's the last thing that I wanna do at the moment. But as soon as that thought goes through my mind there is another one which tells me: probably 9 out of 10 people right now will simply give up and choose not to do it. But I'm not like them. I'm me and I'll do it my way.
So I'll end up doing it anyway even that my mind is tired and my body refuses. I always push myself to the limits to get the best out of myself. When I run 20 laps which is 5 miles, even that I'm really exhausted after the 19th lap, I'll always sprint the last one. So it's all about that mentality of doing things that seem to be too hard. And the best reward is to have that certain feeling of accomplishment.
I usually workout every day. You know pullups, pushups and sit ups. I have a pull-bar in between my door and sometimes I just feel like it's the last thing that I wanna do at the moment. But as soon as that thought goes through my mind there is another one which tells me: probably 9 out of 10 people right now will simply give up and choose not to do it. But I'm not like them. I'm me and I'll do it my way.
So I'll end up doing it anyway even that my mind is tired and my body refuses. I always push myself to the limits to get the best out of myself. When I run 20 laps which is 5 miles, even that I'm really exhausted after the 19th lap, I'll always sprint the last one. So it's all about that mentality of doing things that seem to be too hard. And the best reward is to have that certain feeling of accomplishment.
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