Finding the love of your life

I just finished reading a book called: Finding the love of your life by Neil Clark Warren and I think that I got some valuble informations I wanna share with you. Mario - Let me love you. So here is a quote he used in that book: The ability to talk over problems is more important than how much a couple is in love or how happy they were before the marrige - Daniel Goleman of the New York Times. And I find this interesting: Eliminate the seven deadly mate-selection errors:

1. Don't get married to quickly 2. Don't get married too young. Wait to get married until you know yourself well and untill you know well the kind of person with whom you can be happy 3. Don't be too eager to get married and don't let anyone else who is overly eager push you into marriage 4.Don't try to please someone else with your choice 5. Don't marry someone until you know him or her in a lot of different ways. 6. Don't get married with unrealistic expectations 7. Don't marry anyone who has a personality or behavioral problem that you're not willing to live with forever.

Develope a high degree of counscious clarity about the person you wish to marry, and filter this image through your concious mind until you are completely comfortable with it. Make sure the person you marry is very similar to you. Get married only if both you and the person you want to marry are emotionally helthy. Make sure you are passionately attracted to the person you want to marry. Decide to get married only after you have experienced a deeper more stable kind of love. Develope mastery in the area of verbal intimacy. Learn how to resolve differences before you get married. Get married only when you are ready to be absolutely commited to your partner.