Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Finding the love of your life (2)

Here is 10 general dimensions that are important to consider while formulating the image of your ideal spouse. Which are on the top and the bottom of your list? Ne-Yo: Sexy Love. 1. Personality: what type of personality do tou want your future mate to have 2. Intelligance: no one want to marry someone well below them in intelligence 3. Appearence: determine a look you will be pleased with.

4. Ambition: it is absolutely vital that two people have about the same amount of ambition if their marriage is to endure 5. Chemistry: I belive attraction is critical for long-term satisfaction in marriage 6. Spiritually: reaserch has consistenly shown that religious commitment and marital success are highly related 7. Character: how important is it to you that your mate be absolutely trustworthy?

8. Creativity: how would you feel if the person you marry is creative but falls a little short in other ways? 9. Parenting: is it important to you that your mate be interested in rasing children? 10. Authenticity: the question is the degree of importance it has for you as you build your image of the person you want to marry. So how important is it that your mate be authentic. How free are you willing to let him or her be, especially if that freedom causes disagreements?

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